Friday, June 09, 2006
have settled the church and hotel locations for my wedding next august. although the guest list and lunch locations still need a lot more working on. i also went with Cathy and my sis to view their wedding dresses at the Stamford building yesterday evening. quite a few of my friends have been asking me whether or not i am ready for marriage. believe it or not quite a lot haven't found out yet and some have just gotten to know about it. their reactions were mixed, some with shock and excitement, some happy, and i guess there were a few raised eyebrows as well. anyways, back to the question: am i ready for marriage? i have always wondered when will be the day i will be bothered with that question, and i guess in my case the day came sooner than i expected. Certainly my decision to get engaged was not done in the heat of the moment. Though most of my friends can rightfully say that i can be a impulsive person. someone who acts on emotions. i was never one like my mother, or my sister for that matter, much to their dismay :P however, this time i can safely say i have thought through the whole thing and have come to the conclusion that this is what i want to do. and cathy is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. i know life after marriage is different from life as a dating couple. i know there are difficulties and struggles of starting a family together, of managing our work time, of financial management. Hey, chances are we will fall a lot along this journey. But the bottom line is, she is the person i want to take this journey with. We all have our own paths to take. So for those of you who have been concerned about me, thank you, but this is my path i have chosen to take.
yeongest 12:22 am